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Positive affirmations are the OG self-help tool.
While some swear by them, many of us want to believe in their magic but feel like complete frauds when we recite them.
This highlights the inherent problem with traditional positive affirmations.
This makes the process robotic, unnatural, and difficult to create meaningful change.
For example, let’s say your goal is to improve your health and fitness. Every morning you repeat to yourself: “I am so fit and healthy or I have an amazing body.”
But before you finish uttering the last syllable, self-doubt creeps in. That tiny voice in the back of your mind interjects and says: “No you don’t. You ate two bowls of ice cream last night and skipped your morning workout.”
But there’s a way to trick the mind that bypasses your current self-image and eradicates self-doubt.
You use a technique called lofty questions.
A lofty question is a question starting with “why” and was first introduced as a “mind technique” by intuitive healer Christie Marie Sheldon and later popularized by the founder of the world’s top personal growth companies, Vishen Lakhiani, through his various books.
It is basically a positive affirmation reframed and supercharged as an empowering question. So instead of saying: “I have an amazing body” or “I am so creative and brilliant”, you ask:
“Why do I have such an amazing body?”
“Why am I so creative and brilliant.”
However, most of us spend a lot of time doing the opposite: we ask ourselves disempowering questions. We tend to ask:
“Why is my life so hard?”
“Why can’t I lose weight?”
“Why am I so unfulfilled at work?”
We might not realize it, but the questions we ask hold immense power over our lives. Or as Tony Robbins has been saying for decades:
“The quality of your life is a direct reflection of the quality of the questions you are asking yourself”
This is where lofty questions shine.
★ By the way, we use lofty questions inside The Identity Shifting Morning Practice as part of a daily ritual to reprogram the subconscious and embody new states of being. It’s one of the most transformative steps in the process.
There are two main reasons why lofty questions are so powerful.
Lofty questions become a way to hack into this power so you can reprogram your subconscious mind to create the change you want in your life.
In his classic spiritual program, Life Visioning, Michael Bernard Beckwith often points out that through its various laws (like The Law of Resonance and others), the Universe will always answer any question we present it.
“When you ask what’s wrong, by law, the Universe begins to pull from the database of human consciousness to show you all reasons why something might be wrong.” — Michael Bernard Beckwith
However, what if we consistently asked better questions, like: “Why is my life filled with so much beauty and peace?”
In the same way, the Universe will oblige that question by revealing to you all the ways peace and beauty are present in your reality.
How does the Universe do this?
As the source of infinite intelligence, the Universe has knowledge of, and access to everything in the physical and non-physical realms can provide answers to our questions and solutions to our problems.
And our subconscious mind is the conduit.
In the 1937 classic Think And Grow Rich, Napoleon Hill refers to the subconscious mind as the “receiving set” that “tunes” our minds to infinite intelligence. In other words, our subconscious is the connecting link between our finite mind and the greater knowledge and intelligence found in the Universe.
You likely heard some variation of that statement. This is the idea behind lofty questions as a personal development tool.
By asking “why” questions, not only do we tap into our subconscious mind’s ability to solve problems, but by doing so, our subconscious becomes a portal to greater insights that are way beyond our consciousness.
These insights can show up as bursts of inspiration, dreams, gut feelings, intuitive flashes, visions, and serendipitous events.
Here are some points to keep in mind when crafting your lofty questions.
Your lofty questions should involve emotion. They should directly focus on how you want to feel in a given area of your life, or at least be implied in the question.
For example, you don’t want to ask questions like this:
Instead, your lofty questions should be something like these:
Do you see the difference?
Focus on states of being and emotion instead of material things and specific outcomes.
Try using “always” and “so” as much as possible to capture and heighten emotions in your lofty questions. (Why am I always so outgoing and friendly?)
For example, if your lofty question asks why you’re so happy and having fun while doing your work, don’t tie it to being on a beach with your laptop, sipping a Piña Colada.
Avoid insisting on specific details or circumstances.
Instead, leave some room for the Universe and your subconscious mind to fill in the gaps for what is unknown and you are unsure of. Remember, you only know what you know, and there’s much beyond your present awareness.
Want help turning these questions into a daily practice that actually shifts your identity and rewires your subconscious?
My 10-lesson course, The Identity Shifting Morning Practice is a guided morning ritual that helps you embody the person you’re here to become—starting from the inside out.
Here are some tips for using lofty questions.
Remember, you are reprogramming your subconscious mind — consistency and repetition matter. These questions need enough time to soak into your subconscious.
Make a list of 20 of your most important lofty questions, and yes, memorize them! You can start by reading them from your journal every day, but you’ll likely have them down cold in a few weeks. Then ditch the journal.
Yes, focus on specific goals, but ensure you consider every single area of your life: health, career, family, finances, romance, etc.
Take your life vision or identity statement and turn it into lofty questions. If you need help creating a life vision or identity statement, you can use my 7-Step process to shift your identity to manifest your desires and goals.
Alpha is a brainwave frequency usually experienced during meditation or when you are in a light sleep state.
Lofty questions (or any mind programming technique) work best when you are in this state.
Here are some ideal options of when to ask your lofty questions:
Remember, you are asking a question. Ask it like you genuinely want an answer. Be inquisitive.
Most of all, have fun with them.
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